We’re one step closer toward closure here in St. Louis. The house has a contract on it. Over the past day I’ve been doing more packing and as I am surrounded by the boxes and the half-packed clutter, I am overcome with waves of gratitude. This house has been such an important part of my life over the past 2 years. Buying it was one of the most important choices I have made. It has grounded me and grown me in ways that I can’t exactly express.
- It has been a cozy, warm place that has given expression to my values, interests and loves.
- There have been friends coming and going, glasses of wine on the porch, conversations over the fence with my neighbors.
- There has been a garden in the backyard. I cherish memories of last summer’s madly growing tomatoes and the ongoing war with the brazen city squirrels who always got the best ones just before they were picked.
- There has been a cat in the house, whose growing affection and playfulness has been a source of comfort and delight.
- There has been peace with being alone – something that I have rarely experienced in my life. And I have not felt a need to fill the house up with stuff, but have taken from here and there, received special pieces, hand-me-downs and recycled treasures from friends.
- There has been a piano here, a gift from my dear friend, Cade, who passed away last March. And with it came a space to enjoy playing just for myself again, to stay up as late as I wanted lingering over Chopin, Bach and my own compositions.
In so many ways it is difficult to leave this place but I believe that this lovely house on Hartford Street will continue to bless its inhabitants. God brought me here for a reason and in this transition, I do not want to negate or minimize the tremendous sense of blessing that I have felt, the sense that I have been in the right place at the right time. So, I want to claim a moment of thanks to the God who has been with me in this house and who will be with me in the houses (and/or closet-sized Manhattan apartments) to come!
“O God, our help in ages past, our hope for years to come,
Our shelter from the stormy blast and our eternal home.”

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May 31, 2008 at 3:22 am
Jacquelyn
Paul,
Know that I am holding you in God’s light; praying that you will allow yourself to be embraced and welcomed in your new church community this Sunday! As you share in the strong Disciples practice of Holy Communion, know that at the table of Christ you are united with Park Avenue Christian Church, with Trinity Presbyterian Church, with Compton Heights Christian Church and with God’s people throughout every place and time.
I rejoice with you on this Sunday!
Grace at the Table,
Jacque